
Mama’s eulogy she read at Papa’s wake:-
Firstly, I would like to thank all of you very much for coming tonight. Pok Suan would have been so happy to see all of you because he used to love large gatherings with friends and family. I never knew how many lives Pok Suan had quietly touched during his lifetime until some of you came up to me and my daughters to tell us the little things that he had done for you and how much you appreciated his goodness, friendship, honesty and warmth. Thank you for sharing all your memories with me.
I want to thank all my brothers and sisters in-law, nieces and nephews who planned everything over the last 2 days. And to all my dear friends and family who have shown love and concern through heartfelt and powerful prayers. Thank you all for your emotional support by visiting Pok Suan at home and in the hospital, for bringing him good food and nutrition, for offering to run our errands for us and for cheering him up when he was feeling low. I want to especially thank Koon Swan and Penny who were with us every step of the way since 2005. I feel so blessed to know that so many people really loved Pok Suan.
During the last few months, both Pok Suan and I experienced God’s very real presence and abundant love in countless small miracles. We prayed and read the bible together and really grew in the Lord together. We were so encouraged by the extent of God’s love for us shown in Deuteronomy 1:31 – “like a man who carries a son”, and also in Deuteronomy 2:7 – “In God, we lack nothing”.

It was not easy towards the end but I have no regrets over all that had transpired as I have spent the last 2 years with him, constantly caring for him and making sure that I gave only my best to Pok Suan. He was a very good husband to me and a wonderful father to our daughters and I give God all honour, praise and glory for giving me a wonderful husband to share my life with over the past 31 years. We have all shared his love and friendship and God loves him so much that he deserves a better life of no suffering. I thank the Lord for receiving Pok Suan into His arms and I know that he is in much better care in His heavenly home.
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Jan
March 21st, 2008 at 1:11 am
The eulogys for you father were so beautiful. Thanks for sharing them.
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